Most guys do not end up marrying th

Most guys do not end up marrying their dream girl. That's because the unicorn in most men's mind is a mix of traits that don't exist, and are self contradictory.

By the way, most women do not end up marrying their dream boy, either.

If you define "dream spouse" as the one person out of billions that reciprocally satisfies all of your needs, then there is no such thing. It is just math. Even if that "perfect match" exists, they could easily live on another continent.

The lucky men and women find spouses who find them attractive, like their company and share some interests. That often happens in the first year or so of courtship because of the novelty and hormonal rewards that bathe our limbic systems when we are in love. But after a while, the downsides kick in and compromises must be made. There are no solutions, only trade-offs.

I can envision all of the "well, I married my dream girl" rebuttals. I contend that there are several flaws that you have chosen to overlook, accept or even find endearing that are not present in your mythical "dream girl".

You could rephrase your question to "do most people marry unicorns" and,get the same answer.

Результаты (английский) 1:

Most guys do not end up marrying their dream girl. That's because the unicorn in most men's mind is a mix of traits that don't exist, and are self is self-contradictory. By the way, most women do not end up marrying their dream boy, either. If you define "dream spouse" as the one person out of the billions that reciprocally satisfies all of your needs, then there is no such thing. It is just math. Even if that "perfect match" exists, they could easily live on another continent. The lucky men and women find spouses who find them attractive, like their company and share some interests. That often happens in the first year or so of courtship because of the novelty and hormonal rewards that bathe our limbic systems when we are in love. But after a while, the downsides of kick in and compromises must be made. There are no solutions, only trade-offs. I can envision all of the "well, I married my dream girl" rebuttals. I contend that there are several flaws that you have chosen to overlook, accept or even find endearing that are not present in your mythical "dream girl". You could rephrase your question to "do most people marry unicorns" and get the same answer.

Результаты (английский) 2:

Most guys do not end up marrying their dream girl. That's because the unicorn in most men's mind is a mix of traits that do not exist, and are self contradictory. By the way, most women do not end up marrying their dream boy, either. If you define "dream spouse" as the one person out of billions that reciprocally satisfies all of your needs, then there is no such thing. It is just math. If that Even "perfect match" exists, they could easily live on another continent. The lucky men and women find spouses who find them attractive, like their company and this content share some interests. That often happens in the first year or so of courtship because of the novelty and hormonal rewards that bathe our limbic systems when we are in love. But after a while, the downsides kick in and compromises must be made. No solutions are There, only trade-offs. I can envision all of the "well, I married my dream girl" rebuttals. I contend that there are several flaws that you have chosen to overlook, accept or even find endearing that are not present in your mythical "dream girl". You could rephrase your question to "do most people marry unicorns" and, get the same answer .

Результаты (английский) 3:

most guys do not end up marrying their dream girl. that's because the unicorn in most men 's mind is a mix of traits that don't exist, and are self contradictory.

by the way, most women do not end up marrying their dream boy, either.

if you define "dream going" as the one person out of billions that reciprocally satisfies all of your needs, then there is no such thing. it is a math.even if that "perfect match" exists, they could easily live on another continent.

the lucky men and women find spouses who find them attractive, like their company and share some interests. that often happens in the first year or so of courtship because of the novelty and hormonal rewards that bathe our limbic systems when we are in love. but after a while,the downsides kick in and compromises must be made. there are no solutions, only trade - offs.

i can envision all of the "well, i married my dream girl" rebuttals. i contend that there are several slow that you have chosen to overlook, accept or even find endearing that are not present in your mythical "dream girl".

you could rephrase your question to "do most people marry unicorns" andget the same answer.