Исходите из того, что за любыми дей

Исходите из того, что за любыми действиями ребенка стоит какая-то потребность. Он делает это не чтобы вам насолить, а чтобы удовлетворить свою потребность в утешении, безопасности, близости с вами. Ваша задача - помочь ему удовлетворить эту потребность приемлемым способом. Дети нуждаются в телесном контакте. Покажите ему, какой телесный контакт вас не раздражает. Может, вас бесит, что он теребит грудь - разрешите просто положить туда руку. Не хотите грудь - предложите живот, руку и аккуратно переучивайте. Руки у детей - самая чувствительная часть тела, через них происходит познание мира. Бить по ним - все равно что мужчин ниже пояса. А грудь для ребенка - первое в жизни средство общения и утешения. Когда человек тянется к этому, он очень уязвим, нужно беречь его чувства. Ваша реакция закладывает в нем основу его поведения, мироощущения, способности строить отношения на всю жизнь.

Результаты (английский) 1:

Assume that for any actions the child stands some need. He does this not make you gamble, and to satisfy their need for comfort, security and intimacy with you. Your task is to help him satisfy this demand acceptable way. Children need physical contact. Show him any bodily contact you not annoying. Maybe you furious that he is picking at chest-let me just put there hand. Don't want chest-offer belly, hand and neatly pereučivajte. Hands in children is the most sensitive part of the body, through them comes the knowledge of the world. To beat them is that men below the belt. A chest for the first child in the life of a means of communication and comfort. When a person reaches out to this, it is very vulnerable, must be cared for his feelings. Your reaction lays it the basis of his behaviour, attitude, ability to build relationships for life.

Результаты (английский) 2:

Assume that for any action the child is some kind of need. He does not do it to annoy you, but to satisfy his need for comfort, security and intimacy with you. Your task - to help him meet this need appropriate manner. Children need a solid contact. Show him what you body contact is not annoying. Maybe you furious that he pulls the chest - let me just put my hand. Do not want to breast - offer stomach, arm and gently retrain. Hands of children - the most sensitive part of the body, through the knowledge of the world they occur. Beat them - the same as the men below the belt. A chest for the child - the first in the life of a means of communication and comfort. When a person reaches for it, he is very vulnerable, you need to take care of his feelings. Your reaction is laying in it the basis of his behavior, attitude, ability to build relationships for life.

Результаты (английский) 3:

исходите from that for any action a child should be some need. he doesn't do it to you again, and to satisfy its need for comfort, security, intimacy with you. your task is to help him meet this need appropriate way. children need in bodily contact. show him how bodily contact you don't offend. maybe you hate that he plays with her tits - let me just put in your hand. you don't want the chest - offer the stomach, hand and gently переучивайте. the hands of children is the most sensitive part of the body, through it's experience of the world. to him is the same as the men below the belt. a chest for a child is the first in the world means of communication and comfort. when a man reaches for it, he's vulnerable, need to spare his feelings. your reaction is the basis of his behaviour, attitudes, the ability to build relationships for life.