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Я понимаю. Очень сложно заставить себя поверить во что-либо, начать делать что-либо, когда нет мотивации к этому, когда ты не можешь понять для чего ты всё это делаешь - всё кажется напрасным и бессмысленным. Я смогла справиться с этой проблемой (более или менее) лишь после того, как вышла из среды, которая меня раздражала. Возможно причина в накопившемся раздражении и печали, возможно именно поэтому ты не можешь идти вперёд, а стоишь на месте. Прочитав твоё второе письмо, мне стало казаться, что ты очень зациклен на своём прошлом, вспоминаешь то, каким ты был, как тебе казалось, плохим, именно на это было отведено больше всего места. Не стоит ворошить прошлое, ведь ты изменился, и сам это признаешь, осознавая, что тогда ты был неправ.

Насчёт ответственности. Не может быть такого, чтобы все решения что ты делал были неверными, тебе это лишь кажется. Как говорится, что не делается, всё к лучшему. Для того чтобы избежать страха и неуверенности, попробуй взвесить все за и против, посоветуйся с близкими, выслушай их совет, сделай для себя вывод и сделай так, как считаешь нужным. Ведь твои родные не всегда смогут решать за тебя, и рано или поздно тебе придётся столкнуться с этим, но тогда ты будешь готов, и не только тебе, но уже и ты сможешь помочь людям.

Я имела ввиду немного другое, извини. Говоря, что не знаю тебя хорошо, я имела ввиду нечто другое, то, что не может передать монитор. Вообще очень сложно вот так хорошо узнать человека. Да, я понимаю и имею представление, о том, какой ты. Но. Ведь я не ты, мне тоже сложно понять, как помочь тебе. Я исхожу из собственного опыта, потому что сама долгое время была в таком же состоянии и понимаю, как это сложно.

Мне было приятно видеть, как твоё настроение в письме менялось, когда ты писал о том, что тебе нравится. Старайся больше времени посвящать этому, возможно это поможет тебе легче переносить сложность сложившейся ситуации. Ты не плохой человек, мне кажется ты просто запутался.

Поверить в себя...да, это сложно, для меня, например, невозможно, я жутко неуверенный в себе человек, но в тебе этого недостатка нет. Ты даже если и стеснителен, но между тем, довольно уверен в том, что говоришь, это твой плюс. Тебя просто нужно подтолкнуть, дать тебе мотивацию. Возможно твоя мама может это сделать, как я поняла, она очень важна для тебя и в какой-то степени является твоим авторитетом.

Надеюсь, что ты сможешь справиться с этим. Как я уже говорила я всегда готова выслушать тебя.

Результаты (английский) 1:

I understand. It is very difficult to force yourself to believe in something, to do something when there is no motivation to this when you can't understand what you all do-all seems in vain and meaningless. I was able to cope with this problem (more or less) only after it withdrew from the environment, which annoyed me. The cause might be accumulated irritation and sadness, maybe that's why you can't go forward and are standing on the ground. After reading your second letter, I think you're pretty fixated on its past, remember what you had, as you seemed to be bad, this was given most of the space. It's not worth dwelling on, because you've changed, and myself is acknowledge knowing that you was wrong. About responsibility. May not be such that all decisions that you've been doing were incorrect, it only seems. As they say, that is not done, all for the better. In order to avoid fear and uncertainty, try to weigh all the pros and cons, talk with friends, listen to their advice, do it for yourself conclusion and do as you think fit. Because your relatives may not always be able to decide for you, and sooner or later you will face with this, but then you're going to be ready, and not only you, but also you will be able to help people.I had given little else, sorry. Saying that I do not know you well, I had given something else, something that can not pass the monitor. Generally very difficult here so good to know a person. Yes, I understand and I have the view of what you are. But. I am not you, me too difficult to understand how to help you. I understand from my own experience, because for a long time was in the same condition and understand how hard that is. I was pleased to see how your mood in a letter changed when you wrote that you like. Try more time to devote to this, maybe this will help you more easily transfer the complexity of the situation. You're not a bad person, it seems to me you're just confused. Believe in yourself ... Yes, it's difficult for me, for example, it is not possible, I'm terribly insecure in yourself, but you do not have this drawback. You even if stesnitelen, but in the meantime, pretty sure that saying it's your plus. You just need to push, to give you motivation. Maybe your mom can do it, as I understood it, it is very important for you and to what extent is your authority.I hope that you will be able to handle it. As I have already said I am always ready to listen to you.

Результаты (английский) 2:

I understand. It is very difficult to force myself to believe in something, start doing something, when there is no motivation for it when you can not understand why you do it all - everything seems futile and pointless. I was able to deal with this problem (more or less) only after she got out of the environment, which irritated me. Perhaps the reason have accumulated irritation and sadness, maybe that's why you can not go forward, and standing on the spot. After reading your second letter, I began to feel that you are very obsessed with his past, remember that how you were, how you thought the bad, that it was given the most space. You should not stir up the past, because you've changed, and he admits it knowing that while you were wrong. As for responsibility. There can not be such that all the decisions you made ​​were incorrect, it just seems to you. As they say, that is not done, all the better. In order to avoid the fear and uncertainty, try to weigh all pros and cons, talk with friends, listen to their advice, make for a conclusion and do as he sees fit. After all, your home is not always able to decide for you, and sooner or later you have to face it, but then you're ready, and not only you, but already you can help people. I mean a little more, I'm sorry. Says he does not know you well, I mean something else, something that can not pass the monitor. Actually that's very difficult to know the person so well. Yes, I understand and have an idea about what you are. Ho. After all, I am not you, I also difficult to understand how to help you. I start from my own experience, because she has long been in the same state, and I understand how difficult it is. I was pleased to see how your mood in a letter to me when you wrote that you like. Try to devote more time to it, maybe it will help you to easily move the complexity of the situation. You're not a bad person, I think you're just confused. Believe in yourself ... yes, it's difficult for me, for example, it is impossible, I'm terribly insecure person, but you do not have this drawback. You even if shy, but in the meantime, quite sure, you say, this is your advantage. You just need to push, to give you motivation. Maybe your mom can do it, as I understand, it is very important to you and to what extent is your authority. I hope you can handle it. As I said I am always ready to listen to you.

Результаты (английский) 3:

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