Какими бы идеальными родителями мы

Какими бы идеальными родителями мы не были, нашему ребенку всё равно необходимо общение со сверстниками. Более того, ему нужно обзавестись друзьями, научиться дружить. А это далеко не просто.

О детской дружбе и ее необходимости
Дружба дарит ребенку не только близких по интересам людей, но и дополнительную возможность научиться уважать другого человека, доверять ему. Дружба становится прекрасным средством и индикатором степени социализации ребенка. Именно при дружеских отношениях ребенок учиться полноценному общению на равных, что невозможно, например, в детско-родительских отношениях.
Сколько будет друзей у ребенка – зависит от его личности. Общителен он или более стеснителен в общении. Если это экстраверт, то для него большая компания – это не только не сложно, но скорее даже необходимо. А вот более закрытому интроверту достаточно будет двои-троих друзей, с которыми он будет получать навыки социализации. Настоящих друзей даже у ребенка не может быть много. Такая дружба определяется «крепостью», проверенной ситуациями и временем. С такой дружбой ребенок поймет, что не страшно быть самим собой, что тебя готовы понять, что ты нужен.
Смысл потребности в дружбе будет отличаться по мере взросления ребенка. В дошкольном и младшем школьном возрасте, ребенку будут нужны товарищи по игре. И друзья для него – это все, кто с ним играет. Совместная деятельность становится главным фактором подружиться. По мере взросления у ребенка выстраивается круг друзей по интересам, совпадению позиций, увлечений. И такие отношения могут длиться достаточно долго. Но именно основа их построения (общность интересов и потребностей) в определенный момент может стать причиной разрыва отношений. Дети могут по-разному развиваться, изменить свои вкусы и мечты, перестать соответствовать эмоционально, интеллектуально. Часто, если один ребенок становится более самостоятельным раньше своего друга, то им сложно сохранить отношения при разнице формы жизни. На дружбу может повлиять и возникновение любовных отношений. Но именно в более «взрослой», а не в ранней детской дружбе, ребенок учиться осознавать самого себя, свои потребности, включая потребность в близком человеке. На этих отношениях он будет учиться соотносить свои переживания с переживаниями другого человека, свои и чужие интересы, цели. Подростковая дружба необходима ребенку для обмена эмоций, определения принадлежности к полу, социальной среде, ради ощущения духовного родства.

Результаты (английский) 1:

What would be ideal parents we are, our child will still need to communicate with their peers. Moreover, he needs to get friends, learn how to make friends. But it is far from easy. About children's friendship and its necessity Friendship gives the child not only close to the interests of the people, but also an additional opportunity to learn to respect another person, trust him. Friendship becomes a wonderful tool and an indicator of the degree of socialization of the child. When friendly relations child learn full communication on an equal footing, that it is impossible, for example, in the child-parent relationship. How much will a child have friends depends on his personality. He stesnitelen or more emotionally expressive communication. If it's an extrovert, the big company is not only not difficult, but rather necessary. And here's a more private introvertu but will be enough — three friends with whom he will get skills of socialization. Real friends even a child may not be much. This friendship is defined "fortress", a proven situations and time. With such a child will understand that friendship is not afraid to be yourself, that you are ready to understand what you need. The meaning of friendship needs will differ as the child gets older. In pre-school and primary school age, the child will need comrades on the game. And friends for him is everyone who plays with him. Joint activities are becoming a major factor in making friends. As they grow older, the child is built circle of friends by interests, convergence, hobbies. And such relationships can last long enough. But it is the basis of their building (common interests and needs) at some point might cause a disruption of relations. Children can develop differently, change their tastes and dreams, stop match emotionally, intellectually. Often, if a child becomes more independent before his friend, makes it difficult for them to maintain the relationship with difference form of life. On friendship can also affect the appearance of love relationships. But in a more "adult" rather than neonatal child learn friendship realize itself, its requirements, including the need for a close person. In these respects, he will learn to relate their experiences with feelings of the other person, their interests and objectives. Teenage friendship requires the child to share emotions, determine gender, social Wednesday, for the sake of feeling affinity.

Результаты (английский) 2:

No matter how perfect parents we were not, our child will still need to communicate with their peers. Moreover, he needs to make friends, learn how to make friends. And this is not easy. On the children's friendship and its necessity Friendship gives the child not only loved by the people's interests, but also an additional opportunity to learn to respect the other person, trust him. Friendship becomes excellent tool and an indicator of the degree of socialization of the child. . It is in friendly relations child learn to fully communicate on an equal footing, which is impossible, for example, in the parent-child relationship How many friends will have a child - it depends on the individual. He is sociable or shy in communicating more. If this is the extrovert, the big company for it - it is not only difficult, but even more necessary. But more will be closed introvert enough dvoi or three friends with whom he will receive socialization skills. Real friends, even a child can not be much. Such friendship is determined by the "fortress", the proven situations and time. With such a friendship child will understand that it is not afraid to be yourself, that you are ready to understand what you need. The meaning of friendship needs will be different as the child grows. In preschool and primary school age, the child will need companions in the game. And friends for him - all who play with him. Joint activity is becoming a major factor in making friends. As they get older the child builds up a circle of friends with the same interests, the coincidence of the positions, interests. And such a relationship can last long enough. But it is the basis of their construction (the commonality of interests and needs) at a certain point can cause a break in relations. Children can develop in different ways, to change their tastes and dreams, no longer match emotionally, intellectually. Often, if a child becomes more independent before his friend, then it is difficult to keep the relationship with the difference of life forms. In friendship can affect the appearance of love relationships. But in a more "adult", but not in early childhood friendship, a child learn to be aware of yourself, your needs, including the need for a close person. In these respects, he will learn to relate their experiences with the experiences of the other person, and another's interests, goals. Teenager friendship child need to share emotions, determination of belonging to the floor, the social environment, for the feeling of spiritual kinship.

Результаты (английский) 3:

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