Почему наши дети не должны учиться

Почему наши дети не должны учиться на отлично?

Для меня, как и для многих других людей, учеба в университете прошла с твердым убеждением, что оценки решают все.

Преподаватели и родители твердили, что высокая успеваемость откроет перед тобой все двери этого мира. Высокий балл — это ключ к успешной жизни.

И я слепо верил их словам …

Я помню время, когда учебой я доводил себя до полуживого состояния, только ради того, чтобы получить высокий балл на экзамене.

И мне казалось, что все это имеет смысл, но сейчас … я бы не хотел, чтобы мой ребенок учился так же упорно, как когда-то его отец.

Это звучит странно, но сейчас я объясню свою позицию.

1. Никто и никогда не спрашивал меня о моих оценках
Ни один работодатель никогда не интересовался моими отметками в университете!

Ни в одном резюме мне не встречалась графа «успеваемость», но во всех без исключения был обязательный пункт – «опыт работы».

Еще более удивителен тот факт, что мои навыки работы на компьютере и спортивные достижения придают мне больший «вес» при устройстве на новую работу, чем пятерки в зачетной книжке.

2. Я забыл все, что учил в университете
Моя память устроена исключительным образом, я забывал весь материал сразу же после сдачи экзамена. Когда я впервые пришел на практику, то понял, что, за все годы учебы в университете, я ничему так и не научился.

И хотя мои оценки говорили об обратном, в моей голове была полная каша, обрывки знаний, которые я не знал, как и где применить.

Как оказалось, 5 лет учебы в университете на отлично не давали мне никаких преимуществ перед другими «менее» образованными людьми.

В конечном счете, всего за 2 первых месяца практики я «нахватался» больше полезных знаний и приобрел больше профессиональных навыков, чем за все предыдущие 5 лет погони за хорошими отметками.

Так стоило ли так напрягаться все эти годы?

3. «Хорошие отметки» вредили моему здоровью
Если кто-то может схватывать все «на лету», то я не из числа этих людей. Чтобы «вложить» в свою голову знания, мне приходилось «зубрить» наизусть материал. Перед сессией я учился по 12- 15 часов в сутки. Помню, как «отключался» на парах и в общественном транспорте, потому как сильно недосыпал.

Из-за хронической усталости упала моя продуктивность, знания не лезли в голову, руки «не стояли работу», день проходил как в тумане.

Сегодня я удивляюсь своему упорству, настойчивости и усидчивости — через силу заставлять себя делать то, от чего тебя тошнит. И почему-то уверен, что не смог бы повторить этот «подвиг» вновь.

4. У меня не было времени на других людей
В университете у меня была масса возможностей обзавестись сетью полезных знакомств. Но я этого не сделал.

Учеба и мысли об учебе занимали практически все мое время, у меня не хватало его даже на личные дела и встречу с друзьями.

Пожалуй, самая ценная возможность, которую предлагает университет, – сеть знакомств.

Университет это — плацдарм для новых отношений и проверка своих способностей заводить новые знакомства и поддерживать отношения.

Я подметил следующий интересный факт, те люди, кто были «душой компании» во времена учебы, сегодня хорошо обустроили свою жизнь. Есть среди них даже начальник МРЭО, а ведь ему всего 30. И на пары он, собственно, редко ходил …

Если бы у меня был еще один шанс, я бы предпочел меньше зацикливаться на учебе, а больше времени уделять студенческим движениям, мероприятиям, вечеринкам. А «красный диплом», без всякого сожаления, обменял бы на звание «самого общительного человека».

5. Всему, что мне приносит деньги сегодня, я научился за пределами университета
Эффективное обучение возможно только тогда, когда есть интерес. Современное образование этот самый интерес убивает, забивая голову всевозможными теоретическими фактами, которые никогда не найдут своего применения в реальной жизни.

Порой, просматривая программы на канале Discovery, я за час узнаю об этом мире больше, чем за 15 лет учебы.

Так я выучил английский всего за 1,5 года, когда у меня появился к нему интерес. Хотя, «пытался» учить его 8 лет в школе и еще 5 лет в университете.

Я научился выражать свои мысли на бумаге не на уроках русского языка, а публикуя статьи в своем блоге и порталах вроде LifeHacker.

Вот те советы, которые я дам своему сыну, когда он пойдет в школу:
Разница между 4 и 5 настолько размыта, что вряд ли серьезным образом скажется на качестве твоей жизни. Но вот, чтобы учиться на 5, следует вкладывать куда больше своего времени и сил. Стоит ли овчинка выделки?
Твои счета оплачивают твои навыки, а не оценки на куске бумаги. Накапливай опыт, а не отметки. Чем больше у тебя опыта в разных областях, тем дороже ты стоишь.
Красный диплом не даст тебе ощутимых преимуществ, чего не скажешь о влиятельных знакомых. Больше внимания уделяй новым знакомствам и коммуникации с другими людьми, именно они способны открыть перед тобой все двери мира, но никак не твой диплом.
Занимайся тем, что имеет для тебя смысл, а не тем, что от тебя ожидают другие. Только через интерес станут возможны все твои великие достижения.
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Результаты (английский) 1:

Why our children don't need to learn perfectly?

for me, as for many other people, University studies was held with the firm conviction that assessment decide everything.

teachers and parents said, the high school will open in front of you all the doors of the world. The highest score is the key to successful living.

and I blindly believed their words ...

I remember the time when learning I brought myself up half-dead State, just to get a high score on the exam.

and it seemed to me that it all makes sense, but for now ... I would not want my child to studied as hard as his father.

it sounds strange, but now I will explain its position.

1. No one has ever asked me about my evaluations
no employer ever asked my marks at University!

In summary I do not met "performance", but all, without exception, was a must-experience ".

even more amazing the fact my computer skills and sporting achievements gave me more "weight" in finding a new job than five in test booklet.

2. I forgot everything taught in University
My memory is exclusively, I forgot all the material immediately after the exam. When I first came to the practice, then realized that, for all the years of study at a University, I have never learned how to.

And though my assessment saying the contrary, my head was full of porridge, scraps of knowledge that I do not know how and where to apply it,

. 5 years of study at the University of Nice did not give me any advantages over other "less educated." ultimately,

in just the first 2 months of practice I «nahvatalsâ» more useful knowledge and acquired skills more than in all the previous 5 years Chase for good grades.

So was it worth so much

all these years?3. "good grades" damaging my health
if someone can grab all on the fly, then I'm not one of these people. To "invest" in their head, I had to "learn" by heart. Before the session I attended on 12-3:0 pm in the day. Remember how "disconnected" on and on public transport, because it is highly nedosypal.

chronic fatigue because of dropped my productivity, knowledge is not getting into your head hands "did not stand, day was like in the mist

Today I am surprised at his tenacity, persistence and perseverance — through the power to force yourself to do what you want to vomit. And for some reason I am sure that would not have been able to repeat that feat again. "

4. I have not had time for other people
at the University I had plenty of opportunities to acquire a network of useful contacts. But I did not.

Study and thought about studying occupied almost all of my time, I have missed it even on personal matters and meet with friends.

perhaps the most valuable opportunity that offers University-dating network

.University it is a springboard for new relationships and check your abilities meet new people and keep in touch.

I noticed the following interesting fact, those people who were the "life of the party" at the time of study, now well have arranged their lives. Among them there are even head MREO, but only 30. And the couples he, in fact, seldom went ...

If I had another chance, I would have preferred less hung up on your studies, and more time to spend on student movements, events, parties. And "red diploma", without any regret, traded the title of "the most social person.

5. All that money brings me today, I have learned outside the University
effective learning is only possible when there is interest. Modern education the interest kills, hammering in my head all theoretical facts that never will find their application in real life.

Sometimes watching programs on the Discovery Channel, I am an hour find out about this world more than 15 years of

.So I learned English for only 1.5 years, when I have a specific interest in it. Although, "tried to" teach his 8 years at school and another 5 years at University.

I have learned to express their thoughts on paper not on the lessons of the Russian language, and publishing articles on his blog and portals like LifeHacker.

These are the tips that I will give my son when he goes to school:
the difference between 4 and 5 are so blurred, that is unlikely to seriously affect the quality of your life. But to learn the 5, you should invest much more of their time and effort. Whether the game is worth the candle?
your invoices are paid for your skills rather than evaluating on a piece of paper. Accumulate experience, not mark. The more you have experience in different areas, the more you stand.
the diploma does not give you tangible benefits, which cannot be said about influential acquaintances. More on man according as he purposeth new acquaintances and communication with other people, they are able to open all doors to the world in front of you, but not your diploma.
Make that has meaning for you, and not the you expect more. Interest will be possible only through all of your great achievements.
This article cannot be completed without your participation
I raised a very serious issue and I am sure there will be people who will support me and those who do not agree with my point of view.

* the views of the author do not necessarily reflect the views of the editorial team.

Результаты (английский) 3:

Why are our children should not learn from the great lord?For me, as for many other people, training was held at the university, in the firm conviction that the assessments are everything.lord teachers and parents had been told,The high pass rate will open up before you all of the doors of peace. High score - this is the key to a successful life.lord and i blindly believed their words ... lord I remember the time when schooling i brought up to полуживого status,Only for the sake, in order to get a high score on the exam.lord and I thought that all of this has a meaning, but it is now ... i would not like, so that my child went in the same hard, as the his father.lord this sounds strange,But now I will explain its position.lord 1. No one and has never asked me about my evaluations
no employer has never asked about my marks in the university!

In any summary of me not met graph "achievement", but in all without exception was a mandatory item - "the experience of work" .Lord even more it is shocking the factThat my computer skills and sporting achievements attached to me a more "weight" when your device to a new work, than five in employment booklet.lord 2. I forgot all that, taught at the university
My memory is arranged an exclusive way, I forgot the material immediately after the examination. When I first came to the practice, it is understood that, for all years of study at a university, I have learned nothing and are not learned.

And although my assessment about the reverse, in my head has been full porridge, torn, the knowledge that I did not know how and where to apply.Lord as it turned out,5 Years of study at the University of the great did not give me any advantages over other "less than" educated in human beings.The Lord ultimately,Just for the first 2 months of my "нахватался" more useful knowledge and acquired more skills, than in all the previous 5 years chase for good marks.Lord so was it worth it rushes all of these years?

3. "Good marks" trotskyists my health
if someone can gain insight into relevant all the "on-the-fly", but I am not one of these people. To "invest" in its head knowledge, I had "зубрить" blackboard material.Before the session I went to 12- 15 hours a day. I remember, as a "cleared" on the pairs and in public transport, because how much недосыпал.Lord because of the chronic fatigue has dropped my productivity, knowledge does not Leslie in the head,Hands of "were not work", the day took place as well as in the fog.lord today, I worked as an attorney in perseverance, perseverance and усидчивости - through force forcing themselves to do, from what you feel sick. And why is it I am sure,That would not have been able to repeat this "feat" again.lord 4. I have not had the time to other people
at the university, I have had ample opportunity acquire network useful introductions. But I did not do so.

Training and thoughts about learning held in virtually all my time, I have not been lacking its even on the personal affairs and meeting with friends.Lord is perhaps, the most valuable opportunity that offers university, - network introductions.

University this is a springboard for a new relationship and test their abilities make new contacts and to maintain relations.lord I frankly speaking the following interesting fact, those peopleWho were the "soul" in times student, is now a well-men their lives. There are among them even the chief МРЭО, and because it is only 30. And the couples he, in fact, rarely went ... lord if i was another chance,I would prefer less agreeable to the school, and more time to be given to student movements, activities, party perfect. And the "red diploma", without compunction, traded to the title of "the partner: rights" .lord 5.All that I have today, I have learned outside university
effective learning is only possible when there is a concern. It is a modern education this most interest kills,Jakarta's head every theoretical facts, that will never find its application in real life.lord sometimes, while viewing the program on the Discovery Channel, I am an hour know about this world more than 15 years of study.

So I learned English for only 1.5 years, when I've got interest in it. Although, "attempted to" teach his 8 years in school and another 5 years at the University of.lord I have learned how to express their thoughts on paper is not on the lessons learned from the Russian language,And publishing articles in his blog and portals like LifeHасker.lord these are the tips that I will give his son, when he will be in school:
is the difference between the 4 and 5 are so blurred,That is unlikely to seriously affect the as thy life. But that is, to learn from the 5, should be to invest more of my time, and force. Ammar Abdulhamid?
Your account will pay for your skills,And not a piece of paper. Накапливаи experience, and not mark. The more you experience in different areas, the more expensive you're upright.
red diploma will not give you tangible benefits, but the same is not true of influential friends.More attention to be environmentally friendly a new world cup and communication with other people, it is they who are able to open the door before you peace, but not thy diploma.
Mind your order, that is for you, and do not have to do so,That you expect from others. Only interest will be possible through all your great achievements.
this article could not be completed without your participation
i raised a very serious topic and, I am sure, there will be people,I would support and those who do not agree with my point зрения.

* views of the author may not be identical with the view revision.